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Clark Kent without the Cape

5/30/2018

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So here is the truth - I have never scored off the charts in the area of self confidence. Grant that it takes a measure of self confidence to admit that - so I must be growing! None the less, my default language leans towards self doubt. It's not that I am at the point of non-functioning. I have raised a family and tended to God's family for over 40 years. Still, I recognize a measure of uncertainty. I quit a long time ago trying to trace its roots in my history. Nurture or nature doesn't change the reality. It just is. I have learned to walk with this limp.
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But closer to the bone, I have to admit that at times it bothers me. When I plug "self- doubt" into my dictionary, I get a list of adjectives I would rather not wear. I look at others who brim with a Superman attitude and wonder, "Where can I buy that?" There are plenty of places that try to sell it. I have paid for seminars and bought books that tell me effective leaders can leap over tall buildings and bounce bullets off their chest. Self confidence is paraded as the essential super power for anyone who wants to lead and to succeed. But I leave the auditorium or close the book seeing so much Kryptonite.
 
My guess is that I am not alone. In a society of self esteem and a leadership culture which compels us to dream big and achieve bigger, there are more than a few who feel out of step. So they try to conjure up confidence. They join the pep rally and chant that they can do anything they put their mind to. Some reach their goals. Some fall short and become even more affirmed of their limited capacity. So is it hit and miss? Is self assurance something that fits some and looks too big on others? Can you teach boldness? Should we expect our kids to overflow with daring and dash? I offer a substitute.
 
Self confidence may help life and leadership - but it is not essential. Faith is. God does not need us to maintain a "can-do" attitude. Frankly the Scriptures suggest that there is little that we can do on our own. When Jesus said, "Without Me you can do nothing'," did He bruise the disciples' ego? Rather than inflating their self esteem, He commanded them to abide in Him. He reminds all of us that life comes from the Vine not the branches. Some branches may be more adventurous than others. Some shoots may prefer shade over sunlight. But no matter - God is the source of life and in Him we thrive.
 
Faith is not opposed to self confidence, but it does point in a different direction. Faith isn't consumed by personal ability, capacity, track record, giftedness or ambition's reach. Abraham didn't leave his home because he had a great dream. Jacob got most of his self confidence wrestled from him. Isaac was chased from well to well until God made space for him. God was not ashamed to be called their God. There is no shame in living our lives after their pattern. So I no longer worry about my self esteem. I dismiss the leadership portraits which list self confidence as the first essential. I've come to the place where I stopped asking for self assurance and simply say, "Lord, increase my faith."


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     Every living thing moves. If it’s healthy, that motion will be towards growth. The Christian life is no different.  Our maturity is marked by progress in God’s direction. To that degree, we all are Pilgrims. 
    These paragraphs are intended to support and encourage Pilgrims of faith.  I hope they help you move.
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Every living thing moves. If it’s healthy, that motion will be towards growth. The Christian life is no different.  Our maturity is marked by progress in God’s direction. To that degree, we all are Pilgrims. 
These paragraphs are intended to support and encourage Pilgrims of faith.  I hope they help you move. 
​- Pastor Scott Tolhurst